What we see happening at Drakewood
Weddings are evolving, and with this change comes the reconsideration of many long-standing traditions. As we approach 2025, elements like veils, garters, and bouquet tosses are being left behind, but that doesn't mean weddings are losing their charm. Couples are finding new and creative ways to make their special day even more unique, putting a modern twist on age-old customs while embracing personalization and inclusivity. So let’s look at possible wedding tradition changes to match what you are looking for.
The Veil: From Symbol to Style
Historically, the veil symbolized modesty and purity, but today, it's becoming less of a must-have and more of a fashion statement. Many brides opt to skip the veil entirely or choose alternative accessories like flowers, tiaras, bows, or bold hairpieces to complete their bridal look, reflecting a shift toward personal style over tradition. You might even save some money in the process.
The Garter Toss: A Tradition That’s Fading
The garter toss originated as a fun and lighthearted ritual, often seen as a symbol of good luck for the newlyweds. However, in recent years, this tradition has become less popular. Many couples find it awkward or outdated, and changing gender norms are shifting the focus away from such rituals. Couples are instead finding unique ways to interact with guests, such as hosting interactive games or choosing personalized moments of engagement. This is one of the biggest traditions Drakewood sees slipping away.
The Bouquet Toss: An Outdated Custom?
Once a superstition-based tradition, the bouquet toss was believed to bring good luck to the person who caught it, or they would be the next to be getting married. Some couples choose to gift the bouquet to a meaningful person. Below are some other trends we have seen popping up!
Breaking Away from Gender Roles in Wedding Roles
Traditionally, weddings have been steeped in gendered roles, with bridesmaids, groomsmen, and the act of "giving away the bride" reinforcing these norms. Today, couples are opting for more inclusive wedding parties, where roles are no longer dictated by gender. This can be seen with (girls with groomsmen and men with bridesmaids, not sure of the name). Or mothers handing their daughters off.
Reimagining the Wedding Reception: No More Cookie-Cutter Favors
Gone are the days of impersonal wedding favors like mints or generic candles. Couples now opt for personalized gifts, such as custom-made items or experience-based favors, that reflect their personalities. Sustainability is also on the rise, with eco-conscious couples choosing meaningful and environmentally friendly favors, ensuring their celebration leaves a positive impact. The questions we suggest answering when choosing a favor is what would you do with this after you attended a wedding?
Cake Toppers: A Sweet Tradition with a Modern Twist
Cake toppers have long been a staple of wedding cakes, often featuring figurines of the couple or traditional symbols like hearts or doves. However, as couples look to personalize every aspect of their big day, cake toppers are becoming more creative and less conventional, from custom-designed toppers that reflect hobbies or interests to quirky, unexpected designs (think pets, favorite characters, or personalized monograms) or keep it simple with florals. Today’s toppers are a fun and meaningful way for couples to showcase their personalities.
As wedding traditions continue to evolve, it's clear that personalization and inclusivity are at the forefront of the modern celebration. Couples are moving away from outdated customs and embracing new ways to express their love and identity. The most important thing is to celebrate in a way that feels authentic to the couple—after all, it’s their day to make special memories in their way. So here is to creating new traditions; cheers!
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